measurement tool · relationships

Experience Quotients calculator

Two people each answer for themselves. Each gets a reading: REEQ over SEEQ from their counts, and an experience-over-expectation number for relationships and for sex. Together, the calculator shows how their types complement each other, where they need to agree, how widely their complementarity is spread, and any boundaries one has drawn that the other wants to cross. It does not look for people who are the same. The method is set out in the white paper.

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Together

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Together

––complement / accord

Spread

Lift what one has done that the other wants to try

Appetite comparison: strict middle loose

Together = 100 × √(Complement × Accord) × (1 + Spread) ÷ 2. Complement is how much of what each of you wants in a complementary role the other wants in the counterpart role. Accord is agreement on the things that need to be shared. Spread runs from 0 (all your complementarity sits in one role) to 1 (it is spread evenly across every role and both directions). Boundaries never enter the number; they are listed below so they cannot be averaged away.

Boundaries

None found in these answers.

By side

Side	Complement	Accord	Lift

Complementary roles

Each row is one pair of roles in both directions. A cell is the share of the wish in that direction that is met: 100 when one wants the role and the other wants its counterpart; blank when neither wants it.

Pair	A in the first role	B in the first role

Things to agree on

Item	A	B	Accord